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When I saw your question I was going to tell you that many times refusing to eat is a signal that the end is approaching but after reading that she has not been eating for six months that obviously is not the case, whatever she is drinking is obviously enough to sustain her. Has she ever had a swallowing study to see if dysphagia is what is causing her refusal to eat solid foods? Have you tried foods with a soft texture like puddings, yogurt or soups, or any pureed foods? If you want you can make all kinds of healthy, calorie filled smoothies to add variety to her diet, and supplements like boost and ensure were made for this.
My mom was diagnosed at the age of 89 with Alzheimers's and I have watched her eating decline especially over the last two years. After surviving COVID and a few other issues along with it, she became very weak, can no longer walk or dress herself and is mainly bedbound. I agree with "cwillie" regarding the types of food to try and "JoAnn29's" suggestion to have a doctor determine if there is a swallowing problem.
A couple things to keep in mind, a lot of elderly people lose an interest in eating because their taste buds and/or sense of smell have diminished considerably and depression can play a role. Also when they are not active, they haven't really "worked up an appetite" so to speak.
With my mom who now has had hospice care since May and is in a memory care wing at her new facility, I supply the following foods/drinks that the staff can offer if she doesn't want to eat what they bring her for each meal. Although they may not be the most nutritional foods, they are providing some nourishment and calories. I bring protein shakes, her favorite rice pudding and ice cream bars (they provide yogurt). For fluids, although they provide water and a variety of juices, I bring "Splash" from Nestle Pure Life - it is a very lightly "flavored" water to entice her to drink water. Lastly, I buy her the V8 Energy+ drinks which contain a serving of fruits and vegetables but, they do have some caffeine in them. Those come in a lot of flavors. I drink them as well so I try them first and I know what flavors she would like. We both love the Peach Mango the best.
As for medication, I'm not sure what you think she needs. My mom was taken off all medications. The only thing she takes now is a high dose of Tylenol for her arthritis pain and a very low dose of a depression/anxiety medication which also helps her sleep through the night. I hope that helps and I wish you and your mom well!
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
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My mom was diagnosed at the age of 89 with Alzheimers's and I have watched her eating decline especially over the last two years. After surviving COVID and a few other issues along with it, she became very weak, can no longer walk or dress herself and is mainly bedbound. I agree with "cwillie" regarding the types of food to try and "JoAnn29's" suggestion to have a doctor determine if there is a swallowing problem.
A couple things to keep in mind, a lot of elderly people lose an interest in eating because their taste buds and/or sense of smell have diminished considerably and depression can play a role. Also when they are not active, they haven't really "worked up an appetite" so to speak.
With my mom who now has had hospice care since May and is in a memory care wing at her new facility, I supply the following foods/drinks that the staff can offer if she doesn't want to eat what they bring her for each meal. Although they may not be the most nutritional foods, they are providing some nourishment and calories. I bring protein shakes, her favorite rice pudding and ice cream bars (they provide yogurt). For fluids, although they provide water and a variety of juices, I bring "Splash" from Nestle Pure Life - it is a very lightly "flavored" water to entice her to drink water. Lastly, I buy her the V8 Energy+ drinks which contain a serving of fruits and vegetables but, they do have some caffeine in them. Those come in a lot of flavors. I drink them as well so I try them first and I know what flavors she would like. We both love the Peach Mango the best.
As for medication, I'm not sure what you think she needs. My mom was taken off all medications. The only thing she takes now is a high dose of Tylenol for her arthritis pain and a very low dose of a depression/anxiety medication which also helps her sleep through the night. I hope that helps and I wish you and your mom well!