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The smell of BO is light, but smells up her whole car. She tries to wear perfume to cover up the smell (body odor) also with some incontinence (who knows), but it is not successful.
Incontinence is always going to cause odor issues unless briefs are changed regularly, clothing is washed regularly and deodorant products are used as well. Lume is an excellent one, btw. It only takes a small amount of urine to saturate some fabric to create a distinct odor. I'm sure you can help mom stay on top of this common problem many elders are faced with as you seem very kind hearted and proactive!
Does Mom use wipes? The best ones I think are Huggys, big and thick. The problem may be her clothing if you can't get the smells put. I found polyester was the worst for holding in smells. I wash with Tide regular. With polyesters I did not put them in the dryer but hung them out or on a drying rack on my porch. Dryers seem to bring out the smell. You may want to do a vinegar wash. A cup or two to the wash water. Let the items soak. Then wash.
If Mom does not bathe everyday, maybe she should at least be washing under her arms and putting on deodorant. I had to do this with my Mom.
Year ago, when visiting my brother I was shocked to smell body odor. The smell of underarms unaddressed was pretty clear to me; I find it easy to identify differing body odors, likely as a result of a long career in nursing.
I told him. And he was shocked. "My friend never told me that" says he, and I cheerfully responded "Yes, but your friend never tells you ANYTHING negative".
Turned out, due to his Lewy's dementia, he had lost his sense of smell (and taste) at the same time (one of our first clues what was coming at him). He had no idea and just thought he didn't much like deoderants and didn't need them anymore.
I would discuss with your Mom whether her sense of smell and taste are the same for her of late. Ask her how often she is bathing and whether it may be time to switch deodorants. Some elders bath regularly but put back on the same clothes.
If neither of you have a clue what is going on it may be time for a physical where she can honestly discuss with her MD any issues she is having.
I sure wish you luck, but there is no way around this but through it with honesty.
Consider getting a bidet toilet seat to ensure she is washed after going to the bathroom, and especially after she has accidents.
Also, the aging body just doesn't smell great anymore, and gobs of cologne doesn't help the issue. "Old man/lady smell" is a real thing, so regular bathing is a must.
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Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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If Mom does not bathe everyday, maybe she should at least be washing under her arms and putting on deodorant. I had to do this with my Mom.
But thanks anyway :)
Year ago, when visiting my brother I was shocked to smell body odor. The smell of underarms unaddressed was pretty clear to me; I find it easy to identify differing body odors, likely as a result of a long career in nursing.
I told him. And he was shocked. "My friend never told me that" says he, and I cheerfully responded "Yes, but your friend never tells you ANYTHING negative".
Turned out, due to his Lewy's dementia, he had lost his sense of smell (and taste) at the same time (one of our first clues what was coming at him). He had no idea and just thought he didn't much like deoderants and didn't need them anymore.
I would discuss with your Mom whether her sense of smell and taste are the same for her of late. Ask her how often she is bathing and whether it may be time to switch deodorants. Some elders bath regularly but put back on the same clothes.
If neither of you have a clue what is going on it may be time for a physical where she can honestly discuss with her MD any issues she is having.
I sure wish you luck, but there is no way around this but through it with honesty.
Also, the aging body just doesn't smell great anymore, and gobs of cologne doesn't help the issue. "Old man/lady smell" is a real thing, so regular bathing is a must.