I'm thinking of taking a day trip with Mom to the beach this spring. A beach wheelchair rental, some snacks, and a couple hours on the sand under a Sportbrella XL if she takes to it. A nice lunch out if she has a change of mind-I never know with her. She will ask for things then never use them. A couple of months ago she said she would never cruise, then a couple days ago she said she'd like to take one for a year. This would our first fun outing not involving a doctor appointment or other obligation. Part of my motivation is the fact that I love the beach, miss going, and wouldn't be confident using in home health care for that entire day.
The other part is that I think it would be something new and fun for us to do, and a memorable experience if she's comfortable and enjoys herself. Right now Mom gets around with a walker and uses diapers, although she can make it to the portable commode in her room sometimes. She makes it a point to use the restroom if we're out and about.
Any tips or suggestions? Because of my work hours and the fact that it's just Mom, and a dog, it would be just a 2 person trip. I figure some bottles, good snacks, some jazz, lots of leg room, and a couple of restroom breaks to break up the drive would help.
There are stories of bonding with whales and dolphins, which I knew did occur, but reading the story of someone who's personally experienced this is fascinating.
The sound of waves lapping against the shore is also very, very soothing.
No swimming with dolphins, though!
I would make sure I went to a beach that I could park right up at the shore just in case she doesn't want to get out, so that way you both can still enjoy the ocean view..
Lassie: thanks,will be sure to have sunblock on hand. I know from experience, sunburn isn't a good time. Wouldn't want mom to have to deal with that. Henderson State Park is the intended destination, the info about the park and beach wheelchairs is here: https://www.floridastateparks.org/park-activities/Henderson-Beach#Beach
GardenArtist: I think it will be challenging too, but well worth it if mom enjoys herself. And if not, there's something to be said for making a good honest effort. I really find ocean waves relaxing and I'm hoping she'll feel the same.
Rainmom and assandache7, thanks for mentioning possible difficulties with the sand. If the beach wheelchair isn't available, or if mom doesn't find being the sand appealing, parking close to enjoy the ocean sights and sounds would be good too! It's a very pretty beach area.
If I could have gotten around these problems, though, it is the way I would have done it. Lots of good sea food and the ocean view -- who could ask for better?
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/ideas-for-spring-outings-with-seniors-168671.htm
. Even though it's cold here in MA.. I think tomorrow I will take a drive to the beach with Mom.. She won't last long sitting there looking at the ocean but I'll enjoy it..
Then we'll go to lunch..
Suppose to be 50 degrees and sunny.. Anything to get out of the house for awhile..