Are you sure you want to exit? Your progress will be lost.
Who are you caring for?
Which best describes their mobility?
How well are they maintaining their hygiene?
How are they managing their medications?
Does their living environment pose any safety concerns?
Fall risks, spoiled food, or other threats to wellbeing
Are they experiencing any memory loss?
Which best describes your loved one's social life?
Acknowledgment of Disclosures and Authorization
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington. Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services. APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid. We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour. APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment. You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints. Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights. APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.I agree that: A.I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information"). B.APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink. C.APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site. D.If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records. E.This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year. F.You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
✔
I acknowledge and authorize
✔
I consent to the collection of my consumer health data.*
✔
I consent to the sharing of my consumer health data with qualified home care agencies.*
*If I am consenting on behalf of someone else, I have the proper authorization to do so. By clicking Get My Results, you agree to our Privacy Policy. You also consent to receive calls and texts, which may be autodialed, from us and our customer communities. Your consent is not a condition to using our service. Please visit our Terms of Use. for information about our privacy practices.
Mostly Independent
Your loved one may not require home care or assisted living services at this time. However, continue to monitor their condition for changes and consider occasional in-home care services for help as needed.
Remember, this assessment is not a substitute for professional advice.
Share a few details and we will match you to trusted home care in your area:
It is not a disease; it is a cluster of symptoms that many persons with dementia exhibit repeatedly at about the same time each day. The most common time is at sundown, hence the name, but it could be every noon, or any other time of day.
The article juliapickett refers you to has helpful information.
My mother sundowns really bad. She never knows where she is from day to day. Sometimes hour to hour. She has to be reminded daily because she always believes every afternoon that she has been taken to a different place or room. She has had to have her Xanax increased due to this. She gets very agitated in the afternoons and evening. It is rough. I was told my one doctor that I Just needed to deal with it by "entering their world" so to speak. Good luck!
Yes, it's a behavior where many dementia patients get anxious, agitated and so forth as the sun is going down, hence it's called sundowning. They'll often ask to be taken home right away, where their children are, even where they're long deceased parents are, and that their parents are worried about them and they need to get home to them right away. Even if they are already home if they can see it getting dark out they will often ask to be taken home or to a long ago home where they once lived. They may try to wander or go out on their own at this time too to get to these goals.
It has not been well studied academically and they're not sure about the mechanism but interestingly one time during the middle of a bright summer day I put sunglasses on my Mom with Alzheimer's and although she'll usually take them right off she left them on for about 20 minutes and I noticed she started to exhibit the typical sundowning symptoms even though it was midday. When I took the sunglasses off she became calm shortly after.
I think it might be hard wired into all of us as a behavior that has an evolutionary advantage. It's a survival advantage to get home and nest and be safe well before it gets fully dark out. Those who didn't probably got eaten by predators :-) So I think this is hard wired into the ancient fear center of everyone's brain, the limbic system. In Alzheimer's brains they lose hippocampal and cortical brain function - the memory and also thinking rational parts of the brain. Without that part of the brain to keep the fear in check you unmask those fears in unnecessary situations. In healthy adults with a good cortex that can think and rationalize we control that fear and keep it in check.
Although some healthy parents will still insist their kids get home before dark :-)
A solution can be to reassure them and address the root fear. I found that emphatically looking at my mom and smiling and saying I have good news for you! Everyone that loves you knows you're right here and they can come find you anytime. Or saying we can wait right here everyone will be coming to meet us here in time. Or something like that.
Admittedly, as every care giver knows especially in dementia they can forget a few minutes later and incessantly ask dozens of times in an evening as the fear resurfaces...enough to try even the best patience. My mom was very repetitive but as the disease progressed the repetition has almost all gone away...replaced by new challenges.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
A.
I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
B.
APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
C.
APFM may send all communications to me electronically via e-mail or by access to an APFM web site.
D.
If I want a paper copy, I can print a copy of the Disclosures or download the Disclosures for my records.
E.
This E-Sign Acknowledgement and Authorization applies to these Disclosures and all future Disclosures related to APFM's services, unless I revoke my authorization. You may revoke this authorization in writing at any time (except where we have already disclosed information before receiving your revocation.) This authorization will expire after one year.
F.
You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
The article juliapickett refers you to has helpful information.
It has to do with changing behavior and anxiety as the day ends and transitions to night.
It has not been well studied academically and they're not sure about the mechanism but interestingly one time during the middle of a bright summer day I put sunglasses on my Mom with Alzheimer's and although she'll usually take them right off she left them on for about 20 minutes and I noticed she started to exhibit the typical sundowning symptoms even though it was midday. When I took the sunglasses off she became calm shortly after.
I think it might be hard wired into all of us as a behavior that has an evolutionary advantage. It's a survival advantage to get home and nest and be safe well before it gets fully dark out. Those who didn't probably got eaten by predators :-) So I think this is hard wired into the ancient fear center of everyone's brain, the limbic system. In Alzheimer's brains they lose hippocampal and cortical brain function - the memory and also thinking rational parts of the brain. Without that part of the brain to keep the fear in check you unmask those fears in unnecessary situations. In healthy adults with a good cortex that can think and rationalize we control that fear and keep it in check.
Although some healthy parents will still insist their kids get home before dark :-)
A solution can be to reassure them and address the root fear. I found that emphatically looking at my mom and smiling and saying I have good news for you! Everyone that loves you knows you're right here and they can come find you anytime. Or saying we can wait right here everyone will be coming to meet us here in time. Or something like that.
Admittedly, as every care giver knows especially in dementia they can forget a few minutes later and incessantly ask dozens of times in an evening as the fear resurfaces...enough to try even the best patience. My mom was very repetitive but as the disease progressed the repetition has almost all gone away...replaced by new challenges.